At about 8:45 this morning my wife very quietly took her last breath and passed away. A woman I have loved since the fall of 1980 and married in 1985 is gone. Her suffering has finally ended. Sandi is finally in a better place and free.
This has been a long, hard-fought struggle for you both. It will take time for your to recapture your own life and figure out what it can be without your partner of almost 40 years. So sorry that you both had to endure this terrible illness, and hoping the strength that led you to be such a stalwart partner to her can gather to help you with the next phase of your own life--one that would make Sandi so proud of her devoted husband. You are a remarkable person.
Dear Kevin, my tears are for you because Sandi is now in a better place and free from the pain that has plagued her. Your friends grieve with you and Scott. You are stronger than you know.
I cannot tell how much I admire the fortitude and grace you both showed as you made this journey. I am sad but hopeful you will find peace and solace in your bravery and fidelity. You gave her everything and somewhere she's knowing it.
I am very sorry for your family’s loss. We were neighbors at one point— young moms walking with strollers filled with babies and toddlers past the field that is now Whole Foods in Plano. She was great with her kids —definitely a hands-on mom, taking them to outdoor nature preserves, and always able to find the best places to park kids and strollers during 4th of July fireworks.
If any of us ever needs an exemplar of courage, endurance, and determination, as well as great generosity toward others, we need to remember Sandi Tipple.
So very sad to hear that Sandi's gone, Kevin. You loved and supported her as only the greatest men do their wives. I'm glad that her struggles are over, and hope that in time, the memories of the life you had together keep you company and give you strength.
So sorry, Kevin. Ihaave no words.
ReplyDeleteI'm very sorry to hear this, Kevin. Please let me know if I can help in any way.
ReplyDeleteHugs, Kevin.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. {{{ Kevin }}}
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss, Kevin. I know how hard it is to lose a beloved spouse, my thoughts and prayers are with you in the days to come.
ReplyDeleteMy heart is breaking for you, Kevin. Take care.
ReplyDeleteSomewhere in Heaven they opened a door: FEISTY WOMEN ONLY -- NO WAITING.
Crying for you, Kevin, as well as all those who knew and loved her through the years.
ReplyDeleteI'm very sorry, Kevin, to hear of your dear wife's passing.
ReplyDeleteThis has been a long, hard-fought struggle for you both. It will take time for your to recapture your own life and figure out what it can be without your partner of almost 40 years. So sorry that you both had to endure this terrible illness, and hoping the strength that led you to be such a stalwart partner to her can gather to help you with the next phase of your own life--one that would make Sandi so proud of her devoted husband. You are a remarkable person.
ReplyDeleteDear Kevin, my tears are for you because Sandi is now in a better place and free from the pain that has plagued her. Your friends grieve with you and Scott. You are stronger than you know.
ReplyDeleteThere are no words from me which will alleviate the sorrow and pain you (and your family) feel. Just know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteDeepest condolences, Kevin. It's been a very long struggle, and for you, there is still much pain, but things will get brighter.
ReplyDeleteI cannot tell how much I admire the fortitude and grace you both showed as you made this journey. I am sad but hopeful you will find peace and solace in your bravery and fidelity. You gave her everything and somewhere she's knowing it.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry, Kevin.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, my friend, for you, Karl and Scott. But I'm glad Sandi's suffering is over and that she's in a better place.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for you, Kevin, and for your sons. It is true that her suffering is at an end and she is in a better place.
ReplyDeletePrayers continue for you and your family.
I am very sorry for your family’s loss. We were neighbors at one point— young moms walking with strollers filled with babies and toddlers past the field that is now Whole Foods in Plano. She was great with her kids —definitely a hands-on mom, taking them to outdoor nature preserves, and always able to find the best places to park kids and strollers during 4th of July fireworks.
ReplyDeleteThose of us who knew Sandi only through your posts will not forget her. Our thoughts remain with you.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, Kevin.
ReplyDeleteOthers have already said my thoughts in a better way than I could have expressed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
ReplyDeleteJeanne
What a wonderful love you shared. My condolences.
ReplyDeleteIf any of us ever needs an exemplar of courage, endurance, and determination, as well as great generosity toward others, we need to remember Sandi Tipple.
ReplyDeleteSo very sad to hear that Sandi's gone, Kevin. You loved and supported her as only the greatest men do their wives. I'm glad that her struggles are over, and hope that in time, the memories of the life you had together keep you company and give you strength.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry, Kevin.
ReplyDeleteThis breaks my heart beyond belief.
ReplyDeleteThank you all. I miss her so much.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and yours in my thoughts and prayers.
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